It is important to understand that a pusher is often making very good decisions relative to their skill-set, far better than that of their frustrated opponent.
Its simple!… Just not that easy. If you want to hit a solid volley make sure you win the collision with the ball so it pops off the racket for a firm volley. To execute a drop volley the ball must win the collision as you allow the racket to absorb the impact. If you want soft hands around the net you literally need soft hands!